For men, it turns out there are happier than the words 'I Love You'. Source: Womansday.com.
For those of you who are in a relationship of love, the saying 'men are visual, verbal women are' certainly have never heard of.
Yes, men are visual creatures who tend to be impulsive, while women are verbal creatures who love to analyze things. Men from Mars, women are from Venus. With so many of these differences, I wonder if it pleases men and women need different ways. If you flowery heard the phrase 'I love you', he does not feel the same way when he heard the sentence. Reporting from Womansday.com on Friday (02/09/2016), here are 11 things to a happier man than a sentence of love.
When men see you busy with cell phone dinner time, the brain will instantly interpret that he is not important, as submitted by Mike Dow, a marriage therapist. Male brains are created to do one thing at a time and filter out other things that are not important, while women born for multitasking, or do a few things at a time. Men will feel more appreciated if you focus on him. Without the phrase "I love you", he will feel that he is a priority and be loved by you. Maintain eye contact and reduce nuisance if you are together with your partner.
2. favorite cuisine
How to seize the man's heart is through food. This saying has proven true for many people. When you cook your favorite foods without having to ask the couple, it shows that you know the couple well. Couples who pay attention to the little things have the happiest marriage, according to Mike Dow. However, it could be a couple you love whatever you cook for him.
3. Wear a favorite outfit
When you're wearing a dress the couple's favorite, it shows that you still want to look beautiful in front of him even though it is a long time together. The male brain can be more responsive to the visual stuff. See you in a dress of her favorite shows that you are still interested in the pair.
4. Caring for yourself
Do things to reduce stress, exercising, eating healthy, quitting smoking is probably the way you take care of yourself, but it also shows your partner that you love him. By maintaining the health and appearance, men feel that you want to live a long life with him and will make much of a sense of grief for your loss.
5. Give praise
Since a long time, men have struggled to get and retain women, and they are not afraid to show their masculinity when there is competition. Give praise to the husband to make them look the way they want, such as a strong, macho, sexy, brave, always solve the problem, and the hero in your life. Honest compliments about appearance and strength of the couple made him feel that he admired, and it is the same with the words love.
6. Provide free time
Perhaps you did not trouble to ask the next time you need me time, but men are not always able to convey their needs verbally. There is no harm in encouraging couples to meet his friends, doing his favorite sport, or just for a relaxing day at home. This will make the couple feel that you are giving full support to him, and also the freedom to do whatever he liked.
7. Ask for advice
Men want to feel that he is an important part of your life and being able to solve various problems. Try asking his opinion about the problems in the office, to show that you believe in him and his views are valuable to you. When he was asked to fix something, he will feel competent and capable. Asked for his opinion make the couple feel that he is needed and there is an important place for him in your life.
8. Appreciate the small things
When the couple taking out the garbage or get the kids to school, do not forget to say thank you to show that you appreciate it. When you and your partner are so busy going through every day, a lot of little things that go unnoticed. Men also have feelings, and to say thank you, he will continue to behave and live your relationship with positive energy.
9. warm hugs
Before the couple left for the office, consider swapping kiss the lips with a warm hug. Women prefer to connect through words, but men prefer physical touch. Try cuddling least 7 seconds, and you will find it has gained something, as well as your partner.
Old sex is fun. But occasionally a brief sexual relationship can be beneficial for you and your partner. If a woman feels loved when cuddling after sex, men feel loved when releasing the hormone dopamine, which is when he reaches satisfaction. Nothing wrong with a quickie you do to increase the sensation of fun in your relationship.
11. Being a good listener
Tension at work and family can be stressful for a man, who can not always be channeled. Create an atmosphere that can make your partner moan to you. Listen to vent couples without trying to fix anything, and he will feel that you do not consider it weak. He will feel comfortable to confide to you, and that you care about him. If the couple home office with a bad mood, you should ask if anyone wanted him to talk about. If no, listen. If not, give it time.